Before we dive into today’s topic, let me hit you with my now-standard disclaimer: This series isn’t about bashing clients. I adore you guys! This is just a lighthearted peek behind the curtain, sharing what photographers sometimes grumble about in those infamous Facebook photography groups. Think of this as a "How to Work with Your Photographer 101" class—funny, maybe a touch snarky, but definitely written with love.
Inspiration Welcome, Micromanaging Not So Much
Today’s spicy subject: communicating your ideas. Let’s start with this truth bomb—we do want to hear your thoughts. Share your Pinterest boards, gush about your dream photos, and tell us all about how you’ve been imagining this moment for weeks. We’re here for it! But, here’s where it gets tricky. While we’re all in for inspiration, we’re not here to recreate someone else’s session shot for shot.
Why? Because we fancy ourselves artists, and art isn’t about carbon copying someone else’s work. Sure, there’s nothing new under the sun, but we’re aiming for unique-ish, not "Look, I Xeroxed this Pinterest photo!" We want to take those dreamy poses and vibes you’re drawn to and make them your own—something special and personal that reflects you.
It's a contradiction, I know. We want to know exactly what you’re thinking, yet also crave the creative freedom to flex our artistic muscles. We’re basically saying, “Tell me what you love, but don’t micromanage me.” Confusing? Maybe. Worth it for stunning, one-of-a-kind photos? Absolutely.
So, spill your vision, share those pins, and then step back and let your photographer do what they do best—make magic happen that’s all about you. Then you can stay tuned for a post-shoot debrief where you say, “Whoa, this turned out even better than I imagined!”
That’s the goal. ✨
